Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt September 19, 2019 Relationships Tips for Surviving the Engagement Period Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt September 19, 2019 Relationships While the engagement period is fun and exciting, there can be many additional stressors and challenges when blending two lives together. Make sure to not focus on perfection, let go of the small stuff, communicate well, and to continue courting.